Etiquette
Consideration · Please bring your donation tucked into a card, book, or gift bag and present it to me upon meeting.
Hygiene · I always arrive fresh, clean, and minimally-scented, and I appreciate if you’d do the same. Thoroughly-washed hands and a swig of mouthwash can work wonders!
Gifts · I absolutely adore gifts; tokens of affection are a love language for me. If you’d like to really make me smile, see my Wishlist for some of my favorite things.
Longer dates · I prioritize longer dates because they feel more natural to me and give our chemistry time to develop. For dates 3 hours and over, please plan to meet in public—whether we’re engaging in a social activity, coffee, a drink, or a meal together. Spending the night? I’ll need 8 hours of uninterrupted beauty sleep and a cup of coffee in order to be at my best for you.
Apparel requests · I’m happy to wear any of the lingerie you’ve seen me in. I’ll always accommodate outfit requests when possible (as long as they’re appropriate for the scenario), but if there’s something specific you’d like to see me in you’re welcome to purchase it for me in advance.
Screening & privacy
Screening is an industry-standard process and is mandatory for all new friends. This procedure helps me feel safe and comfortable meeting with you, and I appreciate your trust during this process. I’ll request your legal identity either via your ID and/or your LinkedIn profile, both of which I’ll securely delete upon verification.
I treat all dates as strictly confidential and only offer references with your explicit permission. I’m happy to sign an NDA as long as it’s furnished at least 1 week in advance so I’ll have appropriate time for my legal team to review.
Discretion goes both ways; I don’t participate in review board culture and ask that you refrain from sharing details of our encounter with others.
Deposits & cancellations
Deposits · Once screening is complete, I require a 20% deposit in order to hold your requested date/time. I offer a number of discreet digital options for deposits.
Advance cancellations · I’m happy to refund or apply your deposit towards a future date if you inform me at least 48 hours in advance. For cancellations or rescheduling within 48 hours of our date, deposits are nonrefundable.
Short-notice cancellations · Same-day cancellations will incur a fee equal to 50% of the total booking. I lead a full life and am an intentionally low-volume provider, so I’ve likely turned down other dates that day in order to meet you.
Refunds · In the highly unlikely event that I need to cancel, I’ll refund your deposit via the original method within 3 business days.
Lateness · While I’ll try my best to accommodate your schedule, please note that if you’re running over 15 minutes late it may cut into our time together.